Parent Child bond (A crucial tie)

Written by: Arooj Shahbaz

(Lahore, Pakistan)

" A few depictions of a parent's time reliably is the best legacy a parent can give his kids".

Parents are the most important person in anyone's life because they are our role models, best friends, and the most genuine relationship we can ever have. But what if this most important link fails to pay attention to you and your needs? No one can even imagine what a child will go through.

Parenting is the most essential thing to do; we tend to assume it and accept it as normal, but the right parenting style and word choice can make your child's life both better and worse.

When most people learn that they are expecting their first child, they become very excited and begin to prepare for it. However, most people view parenting as a robotic process in which they only care for basic needs, provide protection, plan for the future, and so on. We often overlook the most important part of parenting: emotional support and love.

We automate the entire parenting process. In our culture today, it is evident that since the introduction of technology into our daily lives, we have lost sight of the true essence of being a part of each other and have become oblivious to each other's needs and emotions.

I've seen many cases in my neighborhood where parents are only concerned with making money and ignoring their children to such an extent that their children are becoming pathetic depression and anxiety patients.

                              Image by Daniela Dimitrova from Pixabay 

Children are like delicate flowers that can be ruined with a little pressure; we must treat them with delicacy and great care so that their little minds can grow into positive human beings capable of doing better for themselves and their nations.

We must pay attention to this critical issue and address it in order to save many precious lives and teach parents about proper parenting styles and how to have a positive relationship with their children.

At last, i want to quote few ayats from Quran e Pak:

         "Wealth and children are the adornment of the life of this (dunia) world" (Surat Al-Kahf, 18:46).

       " Your riches and your children may be but a trial, but in the Presence of Allah, they will be the highest reward" (Surat Al-Taghâbun, 64:15).